Sexual Predator — Why is that a bad thing?

He’s a pervert, a sexual predator, and he needs to be punished. Actually, I know a lot people who enjoy being punished… but that’s another story. David Wu is in trouble for being “acting in a sexually aggressive manner towards” an 18 year old daughter of one of his supporters. The age thing aside (he’s [...]

Pimping Plastic — Consider a Realdoll Brothel

The idea of buying some Realdolls and pimping them out in a brothel came up in conversation on Twitter today… Man I love Twitter sometimes. The conversations I can have there that I consider normal but my clients threaten “harassment suits” over… But I digress. @SonomaMadman said. “i had a (lady) friend who wanted to [...]

Straightening my Kinks

They say that there’s a “gay gene” which means there’s a “hereto gene” and probably a “kink gene.” Turns out a lot of social behavior is genetic — that fine line between genius and psychopath. A great deal of our trusting of others, and our willingness to take advantage of that trust, all have a [...]

Contextual Sin

After I posted my Jesus left some sin on my doorstep blog yesterday, I asked @Fallen_Depths to define sin for me. A bit of a Twitter discussion ensued. Our resident, ex-Rabbi, @byepluto said “Sin is just a word the church uses to keep you from enjoying yourself,” @Fallen_Depths responded, “No it’s not – and you [...]

Wives, Mistresses and Furniture

There’s a scene in Soylent Green where Charlton Heston is asking this woman what her relationship to the dead guy is. She hedges and he labels her “furniture” — basically a concubine that comes with the apartment. It’s a job, she has a place to live, and things are actually pretty good when the guy [...]

The availability of kink

We all have different facets of our personality that we show different people — the woman who’s a dirty sex toy with her lover can also be a manager of a successful company. The good father might be an e dropping raver on the weekends. We all have extremes, and we know who we can [...]

Taking a Dick in the Ass for Fun — TMI?

I read this blog by disgracefuldame entitled Analyst yesterday about how much she likes anal sex. Clever title aside, it naturally got me thinking… Two thoughts, really… First, there’s the “we don’t talk about…” side of sex. We live in a world where you can show ass licking (or at least heavily imply) on Sex [...]

Civil Nudity and the TSA

I’ve always said that we won’t really know what people are carrying on airplanes until we fly naked. Apparently the new body scanners take us pretty much to that point stripping away your clothing and giving a full view to the TSA (Titillated Sex Agency). First off, who the fuck cares if some stranger sees [...]

Dracula — the Ultimate Dom

Went to a small production of Dracula last night… By small, I mean the theater was maybe as big as an oversized shipping container with about 40 people in the audience on either side of the “stage” — really just an area about 10-15 wide between the two rows of people. But it was a [...]

Smart People/Stupid Shit (or the art of rationalizing)

Humans are great at rationalizing shit… The smarter you are, the better you are at making really stupid shit sound reasonable. And if you drink your own Kool-Aid, you find yourself dead in a jungle in Africa. Literally. The problem I have is that as good as I am at rationalizing shit, I’m equally good [...]